Yes/no….yeah…nah
I’m really concerned about the way that Australia's ‘yes’ ‘no’ 'marriage equality' survey is setting us all up to unwittingly comprise our
values. Can we really promote the values
of rights and equality when we engage in a polarising fight?
‘I’m
not sure how I feel about it, but that person over there is waving a flag and
is haranguing me to check the box that they insist upon. Bugger them, they can’t
tell me what to do.’
Binary ways of thinking or behaving have a
way of unsettling us, making us feel threatened. They corral us into
formulating an ‘equal and opposite reaction’.
Yes or no really should not be the point.
I know for a fact that all humans have the
same basic needs: to safety, lodgings, food, water, freedom, employment,
religious expression, racial inclusion etc…I don’t think many people would disagree
with this. I think most people would agree that when these needs are
fulfilled society functions best.
We live in a civil society, which means the
laws of this country apply to us all, to ensure we are safe-guarded in various spheres of life, and that society remains as stable as
possible according the ‘agreed’/dominant values of the time. I’m really proud
that Australian law protects the rights of people with disabilities, validates
racial diversity, and recognises people’s rights to religious expression. The
family law act governs the civil dissolution of marriage and division of property. Our laws
protect our right to safety, and our right to make advanced directives about
our children’s care in the event of illness or death, our property and our
personal wellbeing. The intention of Australia legislation is to ensure that we
are all taken care of, as best as an overarching set of regulations in a
subjective decision making environment can do.
On the basis of current legislation, it’s apparent that Australian society values inclusion, safety and
wellbeing for all. There is no grounds for debate within this value set. And
from here it follows that we ought to all be treated as equal under the law.
I really don’t understand the inherent
hypocrisy that certain groups of us, dwelling on Australian soil, either as
citizens or otherwise, must adhere to all laws, but conversely the benefits of
some of those laws are withheld from them. People on Manus Island (under our jurisdiction)
must abide by Australian and international law, but are not protected by these laws when assaulted, or injured; do not have the right to medical treatment,
to safe lodgings, employment, etc…. I do not understand why in Aboriginal
communities policies are applied that limit freedom of choice and movement,
that are not applied to non-Aboriginal people.
And why is it that children, who may have
two Mums or two Dads, are excluded from the legislated safety net that is deemed
essential for other children: these safeguards being the Family Law Act, and
laws about inheritance and custody. Why must we discriminate in such a way that
leaves some children and their parents incredibly vulnerable?
Wake up Australia. The polarising survey is
a foil, set up to manipulate us into thinking that there’s a fight to be had,
and that if I don’t fight for one or the other position, then something awful
will happen to either me, my loved ones, or my society. The matter is not simply about the right to marry. It's about the legislated rights marriage then affords people.
Something awful is already happening.
Heterosexual people are harping loudly in cafes about their steadfast opinions
and their ‘right’ to chose yes or no. And when people in either camp overhear
the other, the fight is on! And those who are at risk of being significantly affected
by these choices (lovers, partners, parents, children), who overhear these conversations
experience their identities and lives objectified, vilified, generalised,
sanctified… othered, silenced.
I really like the idea of an Australian
society that includes and equally respects us all as fellow human travellers, a society
within which our basic needs and rights are safeguarded regardless of our
difference. Can’t we just get on with what we purport to be our core Australian
values, which we craftily promote to the rest of the world, but don't hold true…egalitarianism and diversity.
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